What does enlightenment mean to you?
Posted on Jul 12th, 2009
by
boogie
This is in Response to the Questions and Reflections for July 12, 2009:
enlightenment is the bullshit that modern day scammers and conartists are selling. it's snake oil. it's something that is used to make people feel inferior, and thus willing to accept the controls of those who call themselves superior. it goes hand-in-hand with spiritual evolution. maybe that's the bottle that holds the enlightenment. social darwinism is just as harmful on the spiritual level as it is in the mundane world. i reject the heirarchy of control, for this leads to abuses. nobody is better than anybody else. nobody. everyone has been given their own unique and special gifts. no gift is better than any other. it is up to you what you do with the gifts you have received, or if you'd rather listen to the gurus and preachermen who would tell you how bad you are, and that you need to be fixed, that you need to reach some imaginary state of enlightenment, and that you can't get there unless you obey certain rules, believe certain things, and only think good thoughts. i'm calling BS.
religious exclusivism is alive and well in the 21st century. i used to think it was a purely christian phenomena, until i learned about other religions. they all do it. and they all think it's bad when the others do it, but it's okay for their group because they are the One True Religion, or they believe in the One True God, so they consider it brainwashing when others proselytize but it's "helping" people when they do it. no. no f*ing way, dude. i would much rather be free, think my own thoughts, and believe what i know is true. abusive controls aren't much fun. thanks, tho. i appreciate that you think i need your help. but maybe i'm just fine the way i am. maybe i don't need your religion to make me a better person. maybe i don't share your belief in One True God. maybe i don't believe that we are all One. maybe i don't want to. maybe there's nothing wrong with me, and nothing wrong with what i believe, even if it's not the same as what you believe is true. maybe truth only exists subjectively.
religious exclusivism is alive and well in the 21st century. i used to think it was a purely christian phenomena, until i learned about other religions. they all do it. and they all think it's bad when the others do it, but it's okay for their group because they are the One True Religion, or they believe in the One True God, so they consider it brainwashing when others proselytize but it's "helping" people when they do it. no. no f*ing way, dude. i would much rather be free, think my own thoughts, and believe what i know is true. abusive controls aren't much fun. thanks, tho. i appreciate that you think i need your help. but maybe i'm just fine the way i am. maybe i don't need your religion to make me a better person. maybe i don't share your belief in One True God. maybe i don't believe that we are all One. maybe i don't want to. maybe there's nothing wrong with me, and nothing wrong with what i believe, even if it's not the same as what you believe is true. maybe truth only exists subjectively.

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Criticism is also a form of control. It's one of the tools of ego.
how enlightening!
it's called cynicism, not criticism.
i don't think anybody needs to get enlightened. i think what needs to happen is for everyone to realize they already are. :-P nobody can do it for you. nobody can show you the way. nobody has the answers, they don't even have the right questions!
It's all good, boogie. I understand your frustration. I've dealt with issues with people who think they know all the answers, who think their god is bigger and can show the way. Their is something to be said about kindness and understanding. Answers come through us to each other if we listen with the heart. We're all in this thing together, and as we grow as a community of love, healing is inevitable. Love is the greatest healing force.
Amen! Well said. The game of making people feel inferior is fueled by the knowledge that most people do not take responsibility for their lives and are looking for a purpose outside themselves, creating a need to follow. Following doesn’t require any responsibility and is the way of the masses. It is the followers who do all the harm in the world, not the leaders as is evident throughout history. It doesn’t matter what religion I belong to, or what political party I belong to, it is all an ideology created by a person that needs followers in order for it to exist. Not being responsible for oneself is to be a martinet, controlled by anyone who can capture the attention by creating the illusion of self worth which manipulates the strings. To me all religions are the same created by a person manipulating its followers. Politics is the same, it doesn’t matter whether I am a Republican, Democrat, or a Nazi, they are all followers to a higher calling and abrogate themselves of all responsibility.
As Barbara Redcay said yesterday, “If my truth isn’t the same as someone else’s truth, it doesn’t mean that my truth is wrong.”
That's it! Imagine a world like that? Perhaps that's what heaven is about, no armies, gangs, political parties, or religions.
A beam of light will fill your head
and you'll remember what's been said
by all the good men this world's ever known.
“Another man is what you'll see
He looks like you and he looks like me
and yet somehow he does not feel the same.
His life caught up in misery
he doesn't think like you and me
cause he can't see what you and I can see…”
I'm a melancholy man
that's what I am
All the world astounds me
and I think I understand
That we're going to keep growing
Wait and see….
Moody Blues - Melancholy Man
There is no growing, there never was, and never will be…. there just is now… and joy is our choice…. no one else made us unhappy or angry.. we just choose to be angry at the way of the world.
There certainly is a lot of BS in the world, aimed at getting us to buy that which we don't need or already possess. Marketing.
Marketing! Creating the elixir for the unhappy and the quest to cover up a poor self-image.
The thing about religion and spirituality is that they are innate. You don't need the teachers. You don't need the books. All you need is you. I don't feel pity for people that use teachers to reach their spiritualities if it works for them, but I'd personally find it inhibitory. I can admit not knowing about this or that, but I won't agree that someone else knows what's better for me than I do. I see where you're coming from and I have to agree.
Well said, Dave. You are a man on the cutting edge. Watch your toes!
thank you all very much for your kind words. they came somewhat as a surprise. i wasn't really expecting anyone to agree with me.
it has been my personal experience that religion is simply incompatible with spirituality. religions, from my perspective, seek to prevent you from looking within and finding your own answers (which i believe is the only place you'll ever find them), and substitutes your inner spiritual guidance (call it what you want) with an objective set of rules, law, instead.
so some folks think they talked to god and He told them what to tell you what is right and what is wrong and that you will be rewarded if you obey, and you will be punished if you don't. maybe they did talk to god. i can't say they didn't. but i know, i know that what the gods tell me is not anything i could ever put into words, much less into a set of rules for good behavior that applies to all people in all circumstances. what is true for me right now, what is the best thing for me to do, that changes. i make my decisions based on the available information and the situation at hand. and i make mistakes sometimes, too. and i might learn something tomorrow that changes everything. truth isn't static. it flows. it changes. my perception of truth flows and changes, too. there is no one right answer except to live. allowing other people to tell me what to think, what to do, how to act, what to believe, those things don't equate with making my own decisions. and if i'm not choosing, i'm not living. where's the fun in that?
I think you are right on, I also feel the journey is different for each one of us. I just don't have the skills to express with as much passion as you have.
I've always appreciated your “bullshit o meter”
Everything I need for enlightenment is between my ears.
This is is Stacy:
“i don't think anybody needs to get enlightened. i think what needs to happen is for everyone to realize they already are. :-P nobody can do it for you. nobody can show you the way. nobody has the answers, they don't even have the right questions!”
You got it sister!
Perfect.
:)
xo
R George; you don’t have the skills to express yourself? Really? Who told you that? Why do you believe that? And why compare yourself to a standard that is outside of yourself? Is life to be mimicked, following arbitrary and capricious leaders? Are you enlisted in the concept that man is a helpless, depraved, contemptible creature, and hold that, as a fundamental certainty? I think not! Man is noble and society is a conspiracy that struggles to never let its members discover such a notion.
Will - I love the way you think!
Man I love this spirited conversation… :) Good for the soul… hehe
nobody is better than anybody else BRAVO!
Guru schmuru…
Here is my way of looking at it…
Kids love this book :)
Stacy, I am right here with you on this one :) Excellent discussion, everyone!
Religon Fails. An old concept of keeping people in check. Kill the religious aspect and obtain spiritual enlightenment. I think everyone needs to experience the feeling of enlightenment. Whatever you want to call it, I think everyone needs to experience the euphoric and blissful state of oneness that people so commonly describe as enlightenment.
thanks everybody! this has been so fascinating. this is not the reaction i got the last time…
would like to ask you, meta-panik, though a question or two, since i do learn more from the ones with whom i disagree. why is it that you think everyone should share a similar spiritual experience? i mean, sure, that would make the mass hypnosis, mind-control programming, work a lot easier for the ones that want to be in control of everyone else. but certainly that's not a good enough reason?!!
i do believe that we each experience our own spirituality in our own ways. no one particular sort of experience is any better than any other. having certain experiences does not make anyone any better than anyone else. i do not believe that our unique spiritual experiences should be diluted and homogenized into a one-world religion. we don't have to all be One. we can be many! all of us different. none of us any more right nor wrong than anyone else. i don't need your oneness to be what some folks might call “enlightened”
Well said, boogie.We all have a role to play in the 'big picture'. Chaos, baby.
Laurie, and I want to read your book! There is a publisher waiting for your transcript, so that he/she can publish it, filling the need of those who are waiting for a great book that will make a difference in the quality of their lives.
Hey Boogie,
Due to the fact that feelings of enlightenment and oneness brings happiness (assuming the heavy research done by people on the topic is correct), don’t you think everyone deserves to experience that feeling of happiness? No two individuals experiences’ would be the same. That’s probably because we are all unique and adopt different belief systems. And yet, because we are all human and that our brain matter is made out of all the same stuff, everyone’s experience HAS to be similar right?? Not that I actually said, “everyone should share a similar spiritual experience.“
I absolutely agree with you when you say that, “I do not believe that our unique spiritual experiences should be diluted and homogenized into a one-world religion”. Yeah, stuff that. I’d love it if all religion got canned altogether. Just imagine how many people would be saved from war due to the clash of religious beliefs? Just imagine how happier people in general would be? Imagine what people would do if they felt happy most, if not, all of the time? A new world would arise. In fact, one very similar to what you imagine….This is off your blog, your words, correct?
”Imagine what the world might be like if all people chose to look within themselves for all the answers. Imagine a world without governments and wars, because each person would be self-governing. Each person would define for themselves what is right and wrong, and in so doing would learn to respect everyone else's autonomy. Just imagine! There would be no written laws, because the Law lies only in each person's heart. There would be no jails, no poverty, no abuses against humanity. Why is it that many people find this so hard to imagine? It's the only thing that really makes sense to me. I don't understand when people hurt people. I don't get it, why anyone would ever kill another person. There's no reason good enough. So what if I am right? What if everyone really does have the ability to know the difference between right and wrong, if they'd only look within and trust their intuition? What is stopping my dream from becoming reality?
Let's take this a step further. Let's imagine the above scenario is true. What would religion look like in such a world? What if religion were defined by each individual for themselves? What if nobody ever told anyone else what to believe? What not to believe? What if the fear were gone, and people were free to find their own Divinity, inside themselves? It would not be a godless world, as some philosophers have said. It would rather be a very magical world! Religion and spirituality would be as real and important to people's lives as the air we breathe or the water we drink, because nobody would make anyone else afraid to believe the truth that lies within. What if?”
I hate to admit it, but your world vision at first glance seems extremely close to what I would envision…except this would only be possible with your mass hypnosis mind-control programming suggestion. Why? Because people are ignorant, or arrogant. Or maybe both. At the end of the day, people need to believe in something, have faith in something in order to feel accepted and to be safe-guarded by a “higher being” or whatever you wish to call it. Why, I’m not sure. Maybe we’re just ill-designed, or maybe we’re still evolving. I’m not sure. Religion provides this. But it’s fail because there’s too many different beliefs, too many clashes between factions. If people search inside themselves for their own meaning without being dictated to through religion, would people be happier? Maybe. How would they become happy without their religious beliefs? I guess they would need another form of enlightenment, or dare I say it, discover the feeling of oneness. Because, oneness=enlightenment , enlightenment = happiness. Happiness= a better world for all.
I think everyone needs to experience the euphoric and blissful state of oneness that people so commonly describe as enlightenment. For the sake of a better world! So, you don’t need my oneness to feel enlightened do you? Ok, that’s cool. I wasn’t offering you any. I’ve got to quote you again though, “maybe i don't need your religion to make me a better person. maybe i don't share your belief in One True God. maybe i don't believe that we are all One. maybe i don't want to. maybe there's nothing wrong with me, and nothing wrong with what i believe, even if it's not the same as what you believe is true. maybe truth only exists subjectively.”
Yeah well, maybe you do, maybe you should, maybe you should try, maybe you’re scared(?) and maybe there is. There is one thing I can agree with you on though, sweetheart; “Maybe truth only exists subjectively.”
Maybe you’re right. I really hope not, however.
You’ve inspired me to start a new thread called; is it selfish not to seek enlightenment?
lots here i wanna reply. this is good. thanks!
some background first:
on happiness: http://mamaboogie.gaia.com/blog/2008/6/what_is_happiness
and on religion:
http://mamaboogie.gaia.com/blog/2008/10/your_god_is_not_my_god_or_dont_proselytize_at_me
i define religion as the objectification of subjective spiritual experiences. is your “oneness” not a religion? something you think is true for everyone? do you somehow think this makes you better than i, because i do not share believe in your truth? do you think i am not happy? how can that be?
so many questions… what makes you think the gods are “higher” beings?
http://mamaboogie.gaia.com/blog/2009/7/do-you-have-a-home
do you think i have not experienced the blissful euphoria that happens with epiphany? do you think i have no relationship with the divine, or that my personal experience of such a relationship isn't good enough because it don't fit what some eloquent bullshit artist said it should be like?
but the whole point is, i'm not right. i know i'm not right, because i keep learning more new things every day. i don't think there is a goal but to experience life, and learning, and to do our best to make the best decisions we can. if i have a goal, it is to be free. to be free to be who i am, free to believe what i know is true, free to make my own decisions for myself. authority exists to prevent those things from happening. religious authority, political authority, you name it. see, i do believe we are equally capable of making up our own minds, and choosing for ourselves. i'll not tell anyone they have to believe what i do. that would be insane! nobody else shares my unique experience, and it is from this experience that i formulate my own beliefs. your experience is different than mine, your truth doesn't have to agree with mine either. all we have is our perceptions of that truth, and no two people see things exactly the same way, not if they are thinking for themselves.
say there are three people looking at the same building. one of them sees a glass revolving door. one sees a window, and inside there are people working in cubicles. another sees a marble wall. they all see something different! maybe they're all right even though they disagree.
edit to add some more links, please feel free to comment on any of my old posts, even though i've moved past that place now, it's interesting to bring up these old conversations from time to time, add to it, etc…
on fear
spiritual evolution
ack!
this should keep you busy for a while… LOL
will said: That's it! Imagine a world like that? Perhaps that's what heaven is about, no armies, gangs, political parties, or religions.
this one's for you!
No, yes, not sure, and u seem happy enough. Do I think “Gods” are a higher being? Certainly not.
And finally, no and no.
http://mamaboogie.gaia.com/blog/2009/5/song_for_bob_dylan…………..
……….ARE U SERIOUS??? Oh man…I better clear off my schedule this week… you'll be hearing from me! lol
ROFL (i don't really expect you to click those links)
dude, don't hurt yourself. :-) there's way too much spewing forth from this keyboard of mine. the blog format makes it fluid. set back and stay a while if'n yer having fun. welcome to gaia! it's a most interesting thing they got here. has been a lot of fun, for the most part. you come across the most interesting folks here, that's for sure! hahahahaha
My only times of experiencing oneness were drug-induced, and usually ended in my feeling much worse than usual (which believe me, is pretty bad to begin with most of the time). Oneness to me seems more like death than life, which doesn't seem very fun.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FmybVZnyXJ0